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The friends’ charter formula
Decide what the week is for: sailing miles, hidden coves, dinners ashore or simply having a floating villa. A catamaran usually wins for several couples because cabins and cockpit space spread the group out; a monohull suits friends who want a stronger sailing feel and a compact social circle.
Write three rules before anyone pays: how the deposit is shared, who approves extras and how a late cancellation is handled. Put the boat, dates, base and cancellation terms in one shared document. Small agreements made early prevent the awkward money conversation on day three.
Choose the base around the people
Marina di Stabia is practical for a first group week: the official marina lists 789 berths, depths up to 6.5 m and services including fuel and 24-hour assistance, with Sorrento and the Amalfi Coast close by. It is a good fit when friends arrive through Naples and want short first-day legs.
Portisco works for a beach-and-bay week in north-east Sardinia. Sardegna Turismo places it near Olbia airport and port, so transfers are simple and the group can reach Costa Smeralda anchorages quickly. Capo d’Orlando is the direct Aeolian option, about 14 nautical miles from the islands, with 553 berths and several charter operators.
Do not make the first day a long transfer. Choose a base where check-in, supermarket, fuel and the first sheltered anchorage fit inside the group’s arrival window.
Set the cabin split and onboard roles
Count real double cabins, heads and convertible berths, then allocate them before booking. Rotate the least desirable cabin only if the group agrees; ‘we’ll decide on the dock’ is a fast way to sour a holiday. If someone needs a skipper cabin or has mobility limits, make that a hard requirement.
Use light roles instead of a rigid rota: one person owns provisions, one tracks shared spending, one keeps the daily route brief, and the skipper owns safety. Everyone still helps with dishes, lines and rubbish. The goal is a fair workload, not a crew hierarchy.
Ask how much storage, water and fridge space the boat has. Eight friends can fit on paper and still struggle if every bag comes aboard, the tender is too small or the cockpit has no shade.

Build a route with two speeds
Plan one ‘sailing day’, one ‘shore day’ and one completely flexible day. From Stabia that may mean a short hop to Sorrento, an Amalfi stop and a protected final night; from Portisco it may mean a beach-heavy Costa Smeralda loop; from Capo d’Orlando it may mean Lipari, Vulcano and Salina with a crossing margin.
Reserve the right to stop. A group of friends does not need a new port every night. A late breakfast, long swim and one good dinner ashore often create a better week than chasing a timetable. Agree a latest safe arrival and a sheltered alternative for each exposed leg.
Check local rules before anchoring. Official Visit Sicily guidance describes the Aeolian Islands as a volcanic archipelago of bays, caves and cliffs, but the exact anchoring or mooring conditions belong to the current local rules and the skipper’s briefing.
Make the money transparent
Use one shared sheet with four buckets: charter and mandatory extras, food and drinks, fuel and marina or mooring costs, and personal spending. Collect a reserve before departure so the skipper is not chasing reimbursements after every fuel stop.
Ask which costs are fixed and which depend on consumption. Capo d’Orlando’s official tariff states that catamaran transit is priced at twice the monohull rate, so a wider boat can change shore costs even when the weekly charter looks similar.
Agree how to handle upgrades, taxis, restaurant nights and a friend who leaves early. A simple per-person base share plus a receipt-based common pot is easier than splitting every espresso.
Food, privacy and the social contract
Provision breakfast and lunch for the whole group, then leave room for local dinners. Label allergies, keep one shelf for personal items and decide whether alcohol is communal or private. The skipper can advise on markets and water limits, but guests own the shopping plan unless a package says otherwise.
Protect quiet time. On a catamaran, cabins in separate hulls give natural privacy; on a monohull, agree headphones, shower windows and an evening quiet hour. Friends remember a considerate boat more than a perfect playlist.
Keep the cockpit and swim platform clear for movement, especially at night. A tidy common area makes the boat safer and keeps small disagreements from becoming the story of the week.
Friends’ charter checklist
- Confirm boat, base, dates, exact cabin layout and skipper format.
- Agree cabin allocation, deposit share, cancellation and early-departure rules.
- Nominate owners for provisions, shared spending and the daily route brief.
- Set an all-in reserve for fuel, marinas, moorings, taxis and shore dinners.
- Plan one flexible day and a sheltered alternative for every exposed leg.
- Check allergies, water capacity, fridge space, tender and shade before boarding.
- Photograph handover condition and keep receipts in the shared folder.
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